no judgement required

i did with sincerity, you judge with no mercy (nabihah, 2013)

when you're too busy judging people, all you can see is their flaws.. even if they have thousandth other values, the judgement you have already made, covers them all. 

because judging without knowing, is too mainstream.

tiga golongan

-gambar x berkaitan-

servus!

i read this somewhere, from a self-improvement book... but i forgot the title...

it says ...

"Ada tiga golongan yang tidak boleh dibawa berbincang, 1. orang yang sedang marah... 2. orang yang tengah lapar ... 3. pasangan bercinta"

1. orang yang sedang marah

biasanya, orang yang tengah marah ni, mmg susah nk dibawa brbincang pn.. sebab tu org slalu ckp, 'biar dia sejuk dulu' ..

2. orang yang tengah lapar

it sounds funny.. but somehow it's true.. (  ini kategori lapar tahap seminggu x makan oke.. bukan lapar mengada awk report kt twitter tuh )

imagine seminggu x jumpe makanan.. agak2 kalau kita g cakap "oii.. duduk sat, aku nak bincang pasai dot dott nih"
ada kena lempang rasanya.. org tgh lapar, disuruh dengar kita membebel.. mmg cari nahas..

besides, my friend once said, "pasal makanan ni, bole buat org bertumbuk" . walaupun kesahihannya agak diragui, tp bila difikir fikir.. cuba kita bg sekeping roti kt 10 org yg x mkn dua tiga hari, agak-agak diorg akn share same rata x?

3. pasangan bercinta

biasanya org yg tgh panas brcinta nih, mmg x kn dgr ckp org lain.. love is blind la kononnya..

love is blind.. true.. but don't be blinded by love..

love is blind tu ambiguity sebenarnya.

maksud dia mungkin gini ..

giant : sizuka, percaya la ckp sy.. nobita tu gay dgn hagemaru !
sizuka : ahhh.. giant si budak gemuk pentipu.. nobita x mungkin curang dengan sy.. nobita peluk2 hagemaru tu sbb diorg kwn baik saja!

sizuka yg buta kerana cinta.. sbb dia nmpk yg baik je kt boifren dia.. wlpn org da warning.. still die defend bf die..

maksud kedua plak mcm kisah beauty and the beast.. wlpn si beast tu x hensem langsung.. beauty jatuh cinta ngan beast tu sbb personality dia.. mknanya, dia x pndg luaran.. die bt x nmpk je ketakhenseman beast tu.. ni love is blind yg patut dicontohi ye kawan2..

soooo... pasangan brcinta 'love is blind' mcm sizuka tu mmg xleh dibawa brbincang SELAGI dia x sedar sndri..


k.. enaf merapu malam2.. solusi.. mcm mana nk handle tiga golongan kt atas..

org yg tgh mrh - bg Al-Quran.. srh dia ngucap sikit.. sbb dlm sunnah ade ckp, kalau org yg tgh mrh.. sila pegi amik air smbhyg...

Rasulullah bersabda:

“Sesungguhnya marah itu dari syaitan, sedang syaitan diciptakan dari api, dan yang dapat memadamkan api hanyalah air. Oleh kerana itu, apabila salah seorang diantara kamu marah, maka hendaklah ia berwudhuk.” (HR Ahmad).

lgpn, Rasulullah S.A.W ckp, org yg bole kawal mrh die, akan masuk syurga :)


Rasulullah s.a.w. bersabda:

“Barang siapa menahan marah sedangkan ia mampu melampiaskannya, maka Allah akan memanggilnya pada hari Kiamat di depan semua makhlukNya dan menawarkan kepadanya bidadari syurga yang ia sukai.” (HR Ahmad)

dapat masuk syurga, dapat bidadari.. so jgn marah marah ye bang *wink3


orang yg sedang lapar - yg ni plg small of the pieces.. kasi die makanan biaq dia kenyang.. pstu kasi die tido sejam dua.. lps tu baru ajak sembang...  sng kan? hehee

pasangan bercinta - yg ni biarkan je.. ckp sekali je.. dia x nk dengar.. lantak p.. sbb selagi x calar hati tu.. diorg x kn sedar.. dia kena mengalami.. baru dia belajar..


ok.. till then
gute nacht ;)


p/s : posting nnti mungkin trkapai kapai.. maybe bole ckp kt abah nnti abis degree keje ngan dia.. atau jual karipap tepi jalan? atau tunggu org masuk minang? ngee.. the later sounds better.. weee~

game over

How do you know you're NOT into him anymore?

When your heart doesn't go thump thump when he's near  =)

Till then,

live a happy life,

find new love,

and take care :)

beautiful no more

"What make you so beautiful, is u don't know how beautiful you are, to me"

Carly Rae Jepsen ft Justin Bieber , Beautiful

this is before

but not anymore..

because now that u know

n yeah.. it's a taboo..

you're just like any other

hope

the real purpose is to know you and to judge, if i, possibly, might or might not, ever hope to make me fall for you, and you in return, fall for me.

but silence is always the best answer.. so, i assume, your ignorance and silence is a 'no'.

thus, ends of this chapter. the story goes on.



sayonara.

let me give your heart a break

wanting to have one's heart isn't as easy as buying a designer bag, but we can't use force either...

Bila kita nak pikat hati orang, usaha dan pengorbanan itu harus ada... kalau orang tu high maintenance, usaha perlu digandakan ye kawan2...

Konsep nya sama macam kita nak mintak duit nak beli gadget ngan parents contohnya... paling paling kenen pn kena kemas rumah, cuci keta diorang ke, urut urut sikit, masak utk diorg ke.. kita panggil 'bodek' ..tp tu sebenarnya usaha kita nak dapatkan apa yang kita nak.

Bila kita nak pikat hati orang, kita x boley kedekut tau..

kita kena 'murah' dalam byk segi.. tp bukan 'murah' yg tu *uhuk

kena murahkan senyuman

kena murahkan ego

kena murahkan masa

sebab.. kita yang nak pikat hati dia.. kita la yg kena berusaha text dulu, say hi dulu..sbb kalau nk harapkan dia,,,, lupikir lah sendiri..

sama jugak macam kita nak beli barang.. kalau kita nak beli something, kita kena pakai baju, start enjin keta, pegi kedai, pilih2, tawar menawar, baru kita dapat apa yg kita nak kan...and kita puas hati dengan barang tu...

tapi, if kita beli on9, kite nampak luar je cantik dan menarik hati.. produk yg sampai, hampeh...

walaupun orang cakap, hati manusia ni bukan untuk dijual beli... tapi hati manusia ni lembut... kalau awk ikhlas syg dia, insyaAllah keikhlasan awk tu, dia dapat rasa... niat kena betul, oke?

n kepada yang mungkin masih merana teringatkan kisah lama, bukak hati bukak mata.. ada lg orang yang mampu bahagiakan hati awk.. awk just kena bagi masa awak dan bagi dia peluang..mungkin yg baru dtg ni lebih baik dari yg lama...

there's a saying, for every "broken-hearted people, there's always somebody with a band-aid"

actually, sy ada satu idea nakal... tp x sy x penah bt lg..  =.=!

tapi idea ni perlukan keberanian...

sizuka : let's play one game
nobita : what game?
sizuka : flirting mission.
nobita : huh?
sizuka : give me one month (or how long you think appropriate..), i'll try everything possible to flirt, seduce, care for you BUT you have to cooperate.
nobita : then?
sizuka : then if after one month, u have a slight interest in me, you lose. but if you feel nothing, you win.
nobita : oookay.. if i win, what will i get. and if you win, what will you get?
sizuka : if you win, you will have your time on your own..i won't disturb you anymore... if i win, you can have me :)

logically, cuba try sebulan.. texting, talking, sharing moments, laughing with one person...benda tu akan jadi norms.. and beli dah jadi norms.. game over.

so conclusion,

kalau kita nak pikat hati org yg kita sedar x suka kita balik, kesabaran tu kena lagi tinggi dari KLCC and kulit muka kena tebal macam kerak nasi  =.=!

gud luck yer semua  :)

till then,
take care


p/s  : ini hny teori logik sy... to be frank, sy belom penah cuba pikat hati org yg x suka sy blk.. belom ada yg bg peluang... so, try at your own risk... tq

no title

Salam

basically, holiday is interesting... eat, sleep, hangout, eat, sleep, hangout again :)
but i'm trying to fill my holidays with beneficial activities.. any beneficial activities to keep myself occupied so i won't think about unnecessary things

i'll keep my distance.. but i can't promise anything.. =.=!

maybe.. there's someone in your dream, maybe there's someone in your mind, but can i be the one when you got no one?


till then,
nabihah


p/s : penat berkejaran dengan adam tadi kat pantai x hilang lg.. will be missing my Adam.. :'(