dont let him break your heart, break his neck instead :)

* this post is specially for my dearest izzati hamdi :P *

ever heard of this song ?

Christina Perri - Jar of Hearts

im sure you know this song. lagu lame da ni :)

ni liriknya : -

I know I can't take one more step towards you
Cause all that's waiting is regret
And don't you know I'm not your ghost anymore?
You lost the love I loved the most

I learned to live, half-alive
And now you want me one more time

And who do you think you are?
Runnin' 'round leaving scars
Collecting your jar of hearts
And tearing love apart

You're gonna catch a cold
From the ice inside your soul
So don't come back for me
Who do you think you are?

I hear you're asking all around
If I am anywhere to be found
I have grown too strong
To ever fall back in your arms

I've learned to live, half-alive
Now you want me one more time

Who do you think you are?
Runnin' 'round leaving scars
Collecting your jar of hearts
And tearing love apart

You're gonna catch a cold
From the ice inside your soul
So don't come back for me
Who do you think you are?

Dear, it took so long
Just to feel alright
Remember how to put back
The light in my eyes

I wish I had missed
The first time that we kissed
'Cause you broke all your promises
And now you're back you don't get to get me back

Who do you think you are?
Runnin' 'round leaving scars
Collecting your jar of hearts
And tearing love apart

You're gonna catch a cold
From the ice inside your soul
So don't come back for me
Don't come back at all

And who do you think you are?
Runnin' 'round leaving scars
Collecting your jar of hearts
And tearing love apart

You're gonna catch a cold
From the ice inside your soul
Don't come back for me
Don't come back at all

Who do you think you are?
Who do you think you are?
Who do you think you are?

the phrases i bold, means something to me. and it should means somethng to u too. kay ?

waiting is regret : yup. waiting is regret. why? because you're waiting for something that is not worth a penny.Girls, He's not the only man in the world. damn the saying " you're the only fish for me in the sea " . trust me, once he broke you heart, he doesn't deserve your precious time at all .

you lost the love i loved the most : He left you. he's stupid. know y? because he lost not only you, but also the love you once have for him.

who d you think you are,
runnin' round leaving scars : who do he think he is ? a royal ? an angel ? james bond ? kim hyun joong ?? hell no. you r just an ordinary boy who is perfectly imperfect. you are just like me. a HUMAN. plz dont think you're so good, so great. you are more or less just like any other guy . okay? never rank him higher than he is girls. save some room for others (other cutey guy ) too k .

you're gonna catch a cold,
from the ice inside your soul. : girls, know wat dis mean? hehe. it means someday he will get sick because of himself. his pride, his ego, will make him suffer. someday, he will meet someone that is exactly like him. cold in the inside. n when that time comes, he'll regret.

i've grown too strong,
to ever fall back in your arm : show to him that you have moved on. be happy without him. n get over him. want to know one secret about guys? they usually dont like it much if he knows you are happy without him. n guess what he'll do? he willlllll crawl slowly into your life. again. how pathetic isn't it. n you girls, make sure you are strong enough to face him if you are ready to be friend with him or just ignore him. remember. he doesnt worth a thing. :)

dont come back for me,
dont come back at all : sing this song for him. let him know that you dont even want him anymore. he's just a 'something' from your past that doesn't deserve your attention at all.

as you can see, perri repeated the phrase 'who do you think you are' three times. That kind of guy, is nothing.. put him in your memory card, n format it. now, get lost .

and here i suggest one song for you girls, skyscraper by Demi Lovato. this is her true story after one of jonas brothers dumped her, i cant recall his name. enjoy. :)

i found this somewhere : 'Is it so hard to believe our hearts are made to be broken by love- HIM'

but nabihah says, ' is it so hard to believe our hearts are made to be filled with love ? - HER'

smile please :)
love ,

why an ex should remain an ex .

Hey.. Know why an Ex boyfriend/Ex girlfriend is called an EX ??

Because they will be an EXAMPLE for us to start a new chapter in our life !!

why wait and suffer if you can enjoy the love again ??

yes. maybe im just saying this bluntly. and you may say ' its easy to talk, but its hard to do'

But have you ever try at least??

Everyone have their own ' someone ' .. so dont worry much . you will get one for you pretty soon. :)

Someone who dumped you because of your weaknesses , doesn't deserve you at all.

WHY ?

Because he's looking for perfection. not for true love.
Because he's stupid enough to let you go.

Never hope for your EX again.

ni satu famous quotes

if you love somebody too deeply,
Set him free..
If he comes back to you
He's yours forever to hold
If he doesn't come back
He never meant to be yours at all

im pretty sure all of you know this quote kn. this quote is only for broken-hearted people so that they will have a reason to wait for that somebody.

in other words, im saying that this quote is useless

If someone ditch you, cry. let go all of the suffer. BUT cry only once. it makes you weaker if you keep on crying. n worst if you cry in front of him begging him to come back. wadehel is dat. mind my words

Dont wait for your EX. never hope to be together again. once you let go, then off you go.

a fren of mine once said, (i dont know if it is originally hers or she quotes dis somewhere) , 'why do you want to keep reading the same book over and over again if you already know the ending? '

quite harsh isn't it. but that's how life goes, kids.

go get life my dear. you know you deserve to be happy. :)

nabihah kata ; Find someone who loves you because of who you are instead of what you did. because things that you do, might change over time.

till then,

admit your wrong.

Everyone makes mistake.

So do you, you, you, and i.

But less people realize their mistake.

Sometimes, they don't even know they are wrong.

people make mistakes,

n they say SORRY.

but few of them actually mean what they say.

the word SORRY comes from the mouth, not from inside

.
so what's the point of saying sorry then?

Sometimes, people are afraid to admit their mistake.

n it ends up with a lie.

n because of one lie, u'll have to create another lie

n the lie will goes on..

admit ur mistake.

say 'i was wrong' instead of 'i am sorry'

truth wont kill.

truth is savior.

nabihah kata ' u're missing to take an action on something and that is why mistake is called mis-take. '

with love,

yeay. i hv my own signature :)

hello world. :)

Banyak blogger yang ade signature diorg sendiri.. da lame teringin nak satu. n finally, i got mine today . huhu. nice font n its written with my feverat colour. loove it . here is mine ;

my signature :) :)

hee..seronok tau ase. nk tak nak tak ? i'll teach u how.. well sy kan baekkk...hee..

first, korg pegi link ni mylivesignature

ni rupa bentuk web page tu, incase lau korg slh masuk web MLM yg ntah pape ..

second, korg proceed without register.. tp lau korg nk register pn tade masalah. lau korg xde keje sgt, sile lerr register. :)

then korg plh da 1st one, 'using the signature creation wizard'

n 4th, here's da best part.. korg fikir ape name yg korg nak bt signature tu.. nama betul lam ic korg ke, name glemer kalah retis ke, nama kucing comel korg pn xpe.. pikir sekreatif yg boleh tau..

then, korg kna pilih font signature yg korg nk..ade baaaaaannnyak jenis tau...pilih jgn x pilih..hehe..

pastu..size font korg..halus mcm semut ade, besar kasut pn ade. lau agak2 readers korg makcik2 old skool, boley la korg pilih font yg besauu punye..

again then, korg leh plh kaler background.. mine tu transparent..nampak mcm lg comel lau transparent...kan ? hee

after that de colour utk font korg tu, mine is purple. korg boley la plh feveret kaler korg. n btw, lau boleh kaler background n kaler font tu bia ler matching yer... lau korg plh pink ngan ijau, mmg kesian la mata2 yg membaca tuh..

pastu korg boleh pilih slope signature korg..mcm my signature tu, sy plh condong sikit je..

then siap. dia akn ckp 'Finished ! The signature is ready'

korg scroll bwh skit then korg click ' want to use this signature? '

then korg pilih yg html code..

die akn tunjukkn contoh ape ntah, korg click je kt generate a code for my handwritten signature

pastu die akn kuar code die. n die de jugak bg link yg tunjukkn cara cane nk masukkn code html tu lam blog.. korg follow je pe die ckp.

taddaaa...siap :)
korg da de signature sndrik...tahniah tahniah..

n pls take note, korg kena save code html tu kt mane2 utk kegunaan mase depan. len la korg nk bt lg next time. mcm sy, sy save dlm microsoft word. setiap kali nk gune, copy paste jela. yee mmg agak menyusahkn sikit, tp mane de bnda yg sng kn kt dunia ni.

nabihah kata, ' what's life without difficulties. '

till then ,

wanita fitnah akhir zaman

Banyak hadis yang cakap, wanita ni fitnah akhir zaman.
Contohnya ;

Sabda RASULULLAH S.A.W.;Tidaklah aku tinggalkan sepeninggalku fitnah (cobaan) yang lebih berbahaya bagi kaum laki-laki daripada (fitnah) wanita. (Muttafaq ‘alaihi)

Rasulullah S.A.W jugak pernah cakap, kalau wanita berpaling, dia akan berpaling dalam rupa syaitan. Maknanya, syaitan banyak menggunakan kaum wanita untuk merosakkan kaum lelaki.

TAPI.. tu x bermakna kami ni syaitan oke. kang ade yg bendul ngat fhm mksd lain lak. Kami comel sgt sbb tu kami mnjadi masalah kt kaum adam . ahaks :)

Banyak contoh sekarang yang perempuan boleh menyebabkan fitnah . Antaranya mcm ni..

perempuan yang x sempurna hijabnya

Ada banyak lg sebenarnya..tp ak tau korg sume leh fikir ape lg yg lain kannn.

So.. sini ak nk share tips untuk elakkn bnda yg buruk jd antara laki dan perempuan ( dis is based on my opinion only oke )

Buat si gadis maanniss :)

~ sila pakai pakaian seperti mana yang sepatutnya dalam islam. sy tau sume da besar n sume tau mane aurat kita kan.

Tak best la kalau kena hentam dgn blogger2 laki yg suke bt post sal perempuan mcm ni Gambar perempuan bertudung tapi Bogel . Niat blogger2 cmni cume nk bagi kesedaran kt kita. tp tu sume ats kita nk jd kaca or nk jd permata :)

~ Tundukkan pandangan. Bukan lelaki je yg kena tundukkn pandangan tau. kita pn sama. nk tau nape? sebabb, perempuan ni x kira la mata die sepet ke, bulat ke, sedang2 ke..mata la yg menjadi penari. org kata dr mata turun ke hati. kalau turun ke hati betul x pe la jugak, tp lau bwh pd hati? kang da ssh ..

~ Rendahkan suara. style bdk2 zaman sekarang kalau da lepak ngan kwn2 satu geng die, gelak x hengat dunia. x kisah da org sekeliling, rasa mcm dunia ini ana yg punye je kan. I noe dat kind of feeling. I came from all girls school since i was 7. So mcm da terbiasa sgt gelak kuat2 sbb xde makhluk lelaki yg pndg,

tp bila skrg da bercampur ngan org2 len, rasa mcm xbest nk gelak kuat2 lg..tp kdg2 terkeluar jugak. xpe, slow2 berubah kn..

~ Bunyi. korg tau x bunyi gelang kaki or gelang tangan @ bunyi kasut korg jalan boleh menarik perhatian manusia ? Betul. x caya? try la test. time korg nk masuk restoren, korg cube hentak kaki kuat sikit tgk org paling x tgk korg. Jadi, perlahankn hentakkn kaki korg tu. xpe kita jd invisible kt org, asalkn kite jd yg plg menyerlah kt mata Allah S.W.T

Buat si jejaka peraSan. Opss -.-

~ Jaga pandangan. Tak perlu la korg nk pandang perempuan lama2. Dalam islam pn de ckp, pandagan pertama tu oke, tp pandangan yg seterusnya tu TAK oke dah.

ada yg ckp, ' pandang sekali tp jangan kelip xpe la kn. tu kira pandangan pertama ' . kalau yg cenggini, rase nk hempok je pale lutut die. aishh

n ade gak yg ckp, ' dah diorg yg tunjuk, kami tengok je la ' ..biar la die nk tunjuk, yg korg nk g share dosa tu bt ape, x pyh tgk perempuan, tgk motor ke kete ke. kn ke motor tu bini num 2 korg :)

oke?

Nabihah kata, ada 2 jenis wanita dalam dunia ni, 1 yg sudi diri dia jd fitnah akhir zaman.. 2 yg nk pelihara diri dia dari difitnah atau menjadi penyebab fitnah. Wanita solehah adalah permata yg mahal harganya kerana kesopanannya dan terpelihara kesuciannya kerana dia memelihara auratnya . :)

beauty needs pain.. seriously??

org selalu ckp 'beauty needs pain' .. well, ni biasanya perempuan yg ckp bila someone komen diorg knp snggp nk bt itu ini sbb appearance. appearance je kot..sume org da cntik la,, kannn? :)

i mean, sume org ade die punye aura kecantikan die sendiri.. xperlu jd artis bru di label cantik oke. cantik kn subjektif.. sume tu bergantung kt mata org yg pandang.

td pegi sungei wang, masuk satu kedai kasut.. de satu kasut ni, totally my taste..so, try la test..tp tibe2 my fren ckp,
' eeii, tinggi ooo..x sakit ka nanti ' (mind da languange, she's sabahan)
n i answered,
' nope, beauty needs pain kn..hehee '
then die ckp lg, ' nda payah la..kasut tu mcm nk g clubbing jak '

then, i ended up not buying that shoes becoz x de size..lorh..agak terkilan, tp x palah, next time.. wlpn kasut tu agk tinggi but i wear baju kurung, so mcm x nmpk la kasut yg vogue tuh..

so the question is, knp perempuan snggp bersakit2 sbb nk cntik?

contohnye :-

1. kasut tumit tinggi @ heels @ stiletto

yg ni plg common. korg igt x sakit ke pkai bnda alah tu..lau jln sejam dua oke je lg, tp lau da smpai 4-5 jam, mmg parah la kaki..kaki siap merayu2 srh stop or srh tuan die jalan kaki ayam..

Tp, bnda tu dicipta ade fungsi dia.. untuk tambahkan keyakinan kaum wanita yg comel2 nih dan jugak utk tambahkn ketinggian bg yg kecik2 molek ni (ehehmm terasa2..) .

mslhnye, ade fakta yg ckp , kasut tumit tinggi boleh jejaskn kesuburan wanita, boleh mengubah postur badan dan jugak boleh sbbkan sakit2 badan.

mcm cik aliensewel ni ckp dlm entri die yg da agak lame Fakta si kasut tumit tinggi , byk buruk dr yg baeknye lau pakai heels ni. n die jugak de tunjukkn kasut2 tumit tinggi yg unik..usha la lau u oll free :)

n btw, heels n stiletto adlh 2 jenis kasut yg berbeza..in case korg x tau..for guys especially..sila guggle kalau berminat :P

2. cukur bulu kening

wlpn bnda ni da sah2 dosa, x baik, haram sbb mengubah ciptaan tuhan..tp x tau la knp ramai sgt yg sgp trim bulu kening die sbb nk cantik.. Nak cabut bulu ketiak pn sakit, ni kn nk cabut kening..msti sakitt kn knn...

gojes kan, tapi....no need lah, you are beautiful in your own way

3. plastic surgery

yang ni x ramai kot yg buat sbb bnda ni memerlukan fulus yg agak tebal..hehe...
Dekat Korea, raaaaaaaaammai sgt yg bt ni, especially artis2 yg comel lotey tuh..yg kalau korg mengadap tgk diorg kt tv smpai snggp x basuh tgn lepas makan.. yerr sy tauu..hehe :)

Contohnye mcm kumpulan kakak2 G G G beybeh beybeh niee..

sssooooooooo cooooooooooomel :)

SURGERY. dgr perkataan tu sendiri kita da gerun kan. time kt dlm OT tu maybe x sakit sbb kna bius tp proses pemulihan tu mesti sakit.

N what will u feel bile satu hari korg tgk diri korg kt cermin, x sama mcm korg. rasa FAKE kn .

de rumours yg ckp , doc plastic surgery kt sane da abis idea cane nk bt muka org2 nih.. oohh kesian.

semua kesakitan dan pengorbanan yg kat atas tu adalah sbb nk jd cantik, nk jd menarik, nk jd center of attention. so btl la beauty needs pain.

TAPI. .

sy rasa, x perlu bersakit2 tu utk cantik, sbb cntik tu subjektif. kita x boleh nk buat semua org pandang n cakap kita cantik. Ade lelaki yg prefer perempuan melayu compared to kakak2 korea yg hots ni. Mr. K contohnye. die kipas-x-kan-mati lisa suribubuhani die..tp xtau la bile die nk masuk minang..tu la laki melayu, xde keberanian, x romentik..haha ..opss.

Semua perempuan cantik, cume cara macam mana die jadikan diri die cantik tu yg mainkan peranan.
Kadang-kadang, orang tengok cantik based on kekemasan seseorang n ada jugak yg judge cantik seseorang perempuan based on her personalities and characteristic.

dan, ini fakta yg nabihah yakin sgt, PEREMPUAN nak jd CANTIK sbb nk LELAKI tgk die cantik. So, cik akak sekalian, LELAKI ialah makhluk tuhan yg plg seksi dan jugak plg annoying n unpredictable. Kita x kn tau ape yg ade dlm kepala diorg. So, jd cantik utk diri sendiri. Dont give a dangg to BOYS. :)

n macam mane nak jd cantik ?
Korang perlu yakin dgn diri sendiri DAN berani, bt yg terbaik utk diri korg tanpa perlu seksa diri sendiri. x pyh kisah ape yg org ckp. mulut org xleh ditutup mcm mulut tempayan. Chill ~

So, nabihah kata, BEAUTY DOES NOT NEED PAIN, BEAUTY NEEDS COURAGE :))